YOU DON'T OWE ANYONE ANYTHING

WELCOME to the closet,today i have a few words for our closet lovies,I dont know who instilled in us that we have to feel guilty about our happiness or else its not genuine,like really am here 31 years of age and i have wasted it all on being good to people and putting their feelings 1st and that has only helped me gain low self esteem,need for acknowledgment and 30kg...do not get me wrong am all about doing good but only if it feels good while doing it.people need to get over this whole because we are family your problems are my problem bull,like seriously,just because we are family or friends i don have to put put up with your life problems and hear me and hear me good you create your own reality so if you are smack in the middle of those life problems who do you think created them and who do you think would be best to solve them ...aaaaaah exactly You!!

i know it seems like am a bit angry or a bit too hush but really am not am content,i have been on both ends of the stick and learnt everything the hard way ladies and gentleman you have this life and this life only live it and live it according to you..do not give someone else your driver seat and then complain they are ruining your life.i have been struggling to put out my 27 year old niece in my 1 bed apartment feeling sorry for her and making my own life miserable but i released its got nothing to do with her she found an opportunity and she is going to milk it till she cant .its up to me to make me feel happy she is not going to willingly move out of a rent free place food and everything house just because it makes the owner fell uncomfortable is she?no she is going to stay even on days she can see you are dying of exhaustion of her because they don want that responsibility in them.they know if they left then they had to get a place and actually work and pay for stuff and sometimes its just not fun.let me leave this here...by the way my name is Neke...control your destiny and make the world better by making you happy